Andrea used to organise Sex Geekdom Philly, she now organises Sex Geekdom Los Angeles. We interviewed her over hearty pasta before watching her give a very insightful workshop at The Pleasure Chest (local sex positive shop) on G-spotting. What do you think sex education will look like in the future? I hope for push for good education in schools. I hope for less shame around asking questions. And a lot of open collaboration between sex educators...

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Sometimes ya gotta try something new; the picture to the right and the interview below is Louise and I attempting to do just that. Oh and just FYI, the interview was far more successful than our attempts at ‘Bum Scissoring‘ Gareth: How did you get involved with Segeekdom? Louise: I got involved in Sex Geekdom because Kate, the founder of Sex Geekdom, and I often work together on sex education projects and workshops. It was funny...

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OK, first things first: To explain my particular brand of Sex Geekdom, I’m going to have to start with a story about piss play. Specifically, a story about someone whose own adult version of Disneyland happens to involves a public urinal. My first paid Sex Geek gig was working for a local AIDS council on a community project around cruising. Now, usually when I say cruising, people picture hanky codes or the Al Pacino film. They should, however,...

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Leonardo Dicaprio taught me to masturbate. I’m not talking about my first celebrity fantasy fap, either. I’m talking about the moment, many many years ago, when I first connected the words ‘jerking off’ with a clenched hand moving up and down along a penis. I was eleven, the movie: ‘The Basketball Diaries’. I was Helen Keller and seeing Leonardo Dicaprio masturbate on that New York City rooftop was my water pump. While I don’t remember...

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What Makes me a Sex Geek? When you’re a sex geek, you just know it. Whether you’re a uni student, sex educator, health professional or have a completely unrelated day job (banker represent!), your interest in sex and sexuality spans further than your own bedroom, and often outside what is socially the norm. As a young girl, I would always look forward to school camps and sleepovers. There was something about the late nights and...

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What, or who is a Sex Geek? And what is ‘Sex Geekdom’? Before the term entered my vocabulary, I probably would have thought a sex geek was someone who knows things like the exact time code of each sex scene in the Alien Triology. Or perhaps someone who submitted a lot of Being Human erotica to sites like fanfiction.net. The thing that’s great about Sex Geekdom is that I might not have been entirely wrong – I just might...

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