Losing My Sex Geek Community

I’ve been having Sex Geekdom withdrawals lately. Sometimes I wish there was a Sex Geek App. Kinda like a Grindr except instead of dick pics, we’d exchange reproductive rights memes. Last Friday, I forced unenthusiastic guests at after work drinks to talk about contraception. Which consisted of me espousing a love for Depo-Provera I never knew I had. “I’ve said it a million times: I’d ride the depo-train to...

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What Makes Louise A Sex Geek?

Sometimes ya gotta try something new; the picture to the right and the interview below is Louise and I attempting to do just that. Oh and just FYI, the interview was far more successful than our attempts at ‘Bum Scissoring‘ Gareth: How did you get involved with Segeekdom? Louise: I got involved in Sex Geekdom because Kate, the founder of Sex Geekdom, and I often work together on sex education projects and workshops. It was funny...

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The Sex Geekdom Hot Tub – Disclosure

Welcome back to our Sex Geekdom Hot Tub. We’re talking about disclosure this month and man were these Sex Geeks on board! Seriously, they could not stop disclosing about disclosure, I totally got prune fingers. Kate: Disclosure comes up a lot for me. Often when people find out I’m a sex educator, I’m soon on the receiving end of a number of whispered, sex-related confessions. I wrote a bit about this experience in my post on...

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My Sex Geek Golden Rule

OK, first things first: To explain my particular brand of Sex Geekdom, I’m going to have to start with a story about piss play. Specifically, a story about someone whose own adult version of Disneyland happens to involves a public urinal. My first paid Sex Geek gig was working for a local AIDS council on a community project around cruising. Now, usually when I say cruising, people picture hanky codes or the Al Pacino film. They should, however,...

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The Sex Geekdom Hot Tub – Sex Advice

Welcome to our first ever Sex Geekdom Hot Tub. How’s the temperature? Good. This is where we invite a few of our Sex Geek friends over for a soak and chat about a specific topic. Alright Sex Geeks – hit me with your best sex advice! Kate: The best sex advice I’ve ever gotten came from one of my art mentors. We were having a conversation about sex and relationships and she said to me, “don’t have sex with anyone you...

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